dating4realz.com

I’ve touched on what this site was about briefly a few weeks ago, but didn’t really expound upon it. Well, here goes…

The basic premise of this site is two-fold…one, to debunk the common dating myths that we have been programmed into believing by the Giant Hollywood Media Machine (that’s a name that I just came up with). If you watch any generic romantic-comedy, you’ll see all of the tired cliches apply.

Subsquently, this makes you think, “well, if it works for them (because you already know that he gets the girl/she gets the boy in the end), then I should take what they’re doing, and apply it to my love life”!

Yeah, hate to take the wind out of your sails, but it doesn’t work that way. Number one, we don’t always get the boy or girl at the end of our fantasy romantic movie that we play continuously in our minds. Number two, things like co-habitation doesn’t mean that it’s like test-driving what it would be like to live with that person, for example.

So, sit back, relax, and read on…we’ll be covering basic topics such as the most important aspects of building a real relationship, dealing with adversity within your relationship, and so on. Don’t worry, I’ll also be reviewing every romantic comedy-drama out there as well.

Since we’re going with the whole “new” theme, why not a new attitude about dating?

Ok, I know what you’re thinking…how can I have a new ‘tude about dating? Well, if you’re like most people, your attitude about dating…well, sucks. It’s time to re-think about our perspective about dating.

In all honesty, it isn’t a “new attitude” or look…it’s really just getting back to basics.That’s what this site’s all about…but it won’t just be about advice. There’s a lot of that floating around, yet no one really seems to really use it, which is why we are in the condition that we are in today. There’ll be stories…some will make you laugh, some with make you cry, and some of them you’ll have to wait until you get home from work to read. Ok, maybe not, but that’s at your discretion.

BTW, I hope that everyone ate their black-eyed peas, because a little bit of luck never hurts.